31 comments. written by a girl. after years of experience :)

Written by a guy. After years of experience.

1. Whatever you do, don't just show up at their house...they run around in their underwear just like we do.
----- ai hindi din, haha. mas sweet ang surprise visit eh :D


2. Don't cheat on them. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be mud.
----- tama, tama. kaya mag-ingat sa pangloloko, we can love you this one moment and ruin your lives at the other :D

3. Beware of every single male relatives and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your butt at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the damn hat.
----- hahaha. tawa na lang ako. nasa babae na un kung magpapasulot sila.

4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they're beautiful.
----- ai, haha. wala pang gumawa nian, infairness naman! :D


5. Don't refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you, it's because they're jealous.
----- tama, tama. pero hindi din dapat gaun na tipong show-off lang. kung paano ka pag kayo lang, ganun din pag may friends na kasama, sweetness ung tinutukoy ko ah :D

6. If they slap you hard, you deserved it.
----- AGREE!

7. Don't be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they're going out with you in the first place, it's because they like being in your arms.
----- nyeh nyeh, hahaha. if they go out with you, they want to be with you.

8. If you don't sleep with them, do not tell your friends that you did.
----- tama, tama.

--8.5. If you DO sleep with them, don't tell your friends that you did.
----- anu un kiss and tell?? haha. wag nang madaldal na lang.

9. You can be dirty minded in private, really...most of them are not offended by it...
----- kung in private, cge go lang. haha. exciting din minsan malaman kung hanggang saan umaabot ang pagiging dirty minded ninyo :D

10. Not all of them eat like birds, a lot of them can eat like whales.
----- a lot ka jan. haha. ewan. pero lahat kayo, trabahador-mode pag kumakain. :D

11. Most of them don't mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you're a *****.
----- hahaha. keri lang KKB, pero please naman, wag all the time! :D

--11.5. Do you honestly need all your money that much? Be a man, pay all the time!
----- keri lang naman kahit minsan lang. hindi ung mas gagastusan niyo ang dota at pc games at kung ano2 pa kesa sa GF niu. hahaha! :))

12. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty ring. Even if it's not a serious relationship.
----- ay, hahaha. hindi ako nakakuha ng sweatshirt sa first rel ko.. hmmm.. at wala kahit ano sa pinaka-latest. ay meron pala, stuffed toy na galing sa yellow cab :D

13. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely.
----- mas prefer ko ata ung ihatid hanggang sa bahay, para malaman ng parents ko na iuuwi ako safely ng kasama ko. :D

14. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to kick the crap out of him.
----- kung sinabi niya. pero pag hindi, wag ka mauna. haha! pag napahamak ka, mas sermon ka pa. :D

15. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer.
----- ok lang kahit hawak ng kamay. at please, iwasan ang magpacute. haha!

16. Never, ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back.
----- wala naman problema sa akin yan, basta playfully at HINDI AKO MASASAKTAN.

17. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went.
----- totoo un. :D sweet.

18. You're dead meat if you can't get along with their pets, parents and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals.
----- ai, GIVEN na po iyan.

19. Don't flirt with their moms or friends...that's just freaky.
-----nyak. hahaha. and don't flirt with strangers and your friends din pag kasama mo siya. hahaha!

20. Don't be freaked out by PMS. It's not gross, and it really does make them feel like crap, so be understanding.
-----Pre-Menstrual Syndrome, haha. dapat super super pcenxa. hahaha. kasi naman, hindi niyo nararanasan un kaya wag niyo kaming sabihan na inarte lang un. hmp.


21. If you don't like the way they drive, you do it.
----- at sasakyan mo ang gamitin mo :D

22. If you're officially dating, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend.
----- tama! INTRODUCE HER AS YOUR GIRLFRIEND! hindi ung hahayaan mo lang siyang nakatayo o nakaupo sa tabi mo without acknowledging na kasama mo xa. hmmmpp.

23. Don't stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.
----- kapag kasi sinabing ikaw na bahala, ikaw na talaga. wala naman kaming pakialam kung saan, mahalaga kasama namin kayo. un na yun.

24. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.
-----Hmmm... hahaha.. oo, hindi na kailangan na maglambing pa para i-kiss o i-rub pa..

25. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.
----- hahaha. tama, keri lang basta wag akong magkakapasa.

26. Memorize their birthdays. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life.
-----TAMA!

27. Don't marinade the cologne.
----- hahaha.. uo, ayaw niyo naman na nakatakip kami ng ilong all the time :D

28. Don't give her something stupid for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful. Jewelry is always nice.
----- any SURPRISE would do. meaningful at may effort, ok na ok ako dun :D

29. If you think the relationship isn't going to last, don't wait to find out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out.
----- tama, tama! :D

30. After you've been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond.
----- tama tama, kaya dapat pahalagahan niyo ung tiwala na binibigay sa inyo. at pag nawala iyon, goodluck na lang sa iyo.

31.Don't ever do anything wrong (well not anything). girls remember things for life and anything you did wrong will be used against you in the future.
----- totoo. lalo pa ako na naka-save ang lahat lahat sa utak. hahaha. matalas memorya ng mga babae, kaya ingat ingat. dahil naaalala nila ang lahat ng mabuti at magandang nagawa, pero mas natatandaan nila ang lahat ng masama :D

sometimes, love ain't enough..

well, after everything that happened, it's over.

it was not that easy to accept it, but then, i'm already prepared for this due to certain actions, him "neglecting" me and the relationship.

i guess, love is not enough to keep a relationship going..

sometimes, trust and respect matters more..

if people can't accept me for who and what i am, maybe, just maybe, they don't deserve me.

*trying, i'm really trying.